Boyfriend #2

I have a friend whose logic never fails to amaze me. For example, when we watched Twilight she despised the fact that Edward called Bella a spidermonkey. She was so serious about it that she said she'd rather someone call her a bxtch [0_o] than call her a spidermonkey [cue my wtf face]. After discussing something with her I'm always like, "what?? You can't come full circle following the path of a square." It really just never makes sense!

I recently realized that a friend may have had one of those "wtf" moments with me a while back. After my last post I was thinking about some more funny times between homey and I. I remember the convo we had about cheating. My point of view was that "ignorance is bliss." People say it like it's a bad thing, but when it comes to relationships you truly don't know what your man/woman is doing. I can't stress over something I don't have a clue about. As far as I know, I've never had a guy cheat on me. Even in retrospect on some crazy situations, I never once considered another woman as the problem. It may be foolish, but stressing over the unknown is not something I like to partake in, especially in regards to cheating. It creates curiosity which elevates to not trusting that person and all of that unnecessary relationship drama when all a girl wants to do is smile and be happy. With that said, if I was in a relationship and found out that my man was cheating I'd bounce without any questions asked. No need for conversations about it; cheating is a definite deal breaker because it's so unnecessary to me.

I feel like men and women who cheat just want to have their cake and save it too.[I feel like that should be the REAL phrase and not that "eat it" mess. Don't make no sense.] You can't eat the cake and still have it in front of you.